Conscious LoveMaking

Why Couples Don’t Have Sex More Often

In your committed relationship over time, how often do you have sex together? Now ask yourself, why don’t you have sex more often? What is it about the experience you share together that could cause either of you to pull back? How fulfilling is your lovemaking together? Was it like this when you first met and fell in love?

There is an innocent approach to lovemaking that has evolved from the work of the late Barry Long in Australia. It provides a simple, natural process of lovemaking that is unlike any system or approach to intimacy you’ve encountered, eastern or western. And yet, many will recognize it as what has been missing that would make your experience most fulfilling for both of you.

It feels like the most pure expression of lovemaking together as a couple. The results of this intimate shared experience are far-reaching, generating an important sense connectedness, meaning, and fulfillment in your lives together that is greater than you could imagine.

This process of lovemaking, called The LoveMaking Process, is designed to facilitate greater emotional and physical connection together, opening each of you to more vulnerable states of awareness, sensation, and loving. In this process the focus is on opening to a deeper, more heartfelt and ecstatic experience together.

Couples find the unfolding process incredibly enlivening and fulfilling – physically, emotionally, and spiritually. It enables them to sustain the pure, spontaneous experience of making love that many enjoyed when they first met and fell in love – every time.

Sharing this richer, more intimate experience together strengthens their bond of love and caring in the relationship. It nourishes both their relationship and their souls. These days many if not most couples find that over time they make love less often, learning this simple process is one of the most important things a couple can learn together.

This natural LoveMaking process introduces an important new level of emotional safety together, free of all emotional pressures, insecurities, and unconscious expectations. This is huge as it enables partners to fully relax into the experience in order to reach those depths of lovemaking together.

This innocent and natural process also will resolve many of the obstacles that prevent couples from enjoying sex together.

For Women, it is this level of safety that resolves sexual insecurities, fears and inhibitions, frigidity, and any lack of lubrication in the woman.

It also provides the framework for healing sexual abuse from the past. And safety and pleasure of now letting go so intimately within is what transforms any previous lack of desire or unresponsiveness.

For Men, this also provides the necessary framework that will enable them to fully relax during the whole process of lovemaking and sustain their erection. It is this also that relaxes men’s impulse towards premature ejaculation.

This is important as these two issues typically arise from emotional pressures and anticipations that take over and overshadow the man. So that he loses his potency or his sense of control. However, when he can fully relax, he feels totally present, and can truly let go into the experience.

This is also important for those drawn to fantasy substitutes for intimacy with porn, affairs, prostitutes, or who experience overwhelming sexual desires and needs. They will discover the deeper intimacy and fulfillment that has been missing deep inside. And that changes everything.

More fundamentally, having this fulfilling experience together of making love in this manner carries over and nourishes each of you in your day to day lives. As well as your personal sense of connection together. On the other hand, not having this natural intimate experience together can tend to feed whatever emotional distance is there.

Couples can learn ‘The LoveMaking Process’ in one session — in person, via telephone or Skype session.

Or by reading Chris’ book, The LoveMaking Process. To learn more, you can download a free sample of the book.

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